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Okay So today Ill be talking about the defense between hearing on listening two words which might sound very similar but they do not have the same meaning Theres a vast difference between those two words First will be addressing the word hearing Curing is basically an automatic response of the brain is a Its a physiological process where the brain is attending toe all the sounds which you are surrounded with Okay it is involuntary It is effortless and it is automatic You are not paying attention in it It just happens constantly Youre constantly surrounded with sounds It might be the vehicles moving It might be bullets Chopin got in your house if someone is cooking the sound of the utensils section But if you feel that sound is not important to you in due time you start you know to filter it out Thank you So just imagine You know if you move to a new house which probably might be newer or realization or really good and to force your ears you might get really annoyed by the sound of the trains moving because it can be really loved But after due course of time maybe a month or two You realize that youre not even hearing it anymore The sound is no more Why does that happen Because you stopped paying attention to it in the starting You were listening to it No youre hearing the sounds but youre not paying attention to it This is only difference between hearing and listening Okay So listening is purposeful It is more focused and it was more active It has a purpose The purpose off listening is to understand the meaning off what is being conveyed by the speaker When youre listening to something youre interested in it and youre in world in it and you want to know what the person is telling But this is what most of us lack And if we do not want to listen the here But we do not want to listen How many times have you know been talking on phone and we scroll through our social media Are we just look at something We might be on a shopping sites but were talking to someone Theyre not listening to them They might be telling something important but were not paying much attention to whats it This is a major major flow So according to me listening is one thing that we all should start adapting if you havent already right because we are constantly we constantly wantto talk We constantly wantto interfere put in our opinions judgments but we do not want to listen Yes so impatient become so restless that you cannot keep a few points within yourself and concentrate order on what the person is telling It might not be just for you know some important business meeting all this But even if you are attending to a friend who was genuine concerns and was sharing it with you he or she is sharing some problem with you and you start by telling your own problems But order in listening toward counter person is telling you might be giving your opinions but have you listened to them completely One more main reason why you should listen as to gain knowledge to gain perspective to understand different perspectives of what people are telling You might have your own perspective but it becomes Sometimes it becomes very important to understand different perspectives as well And when a person is telling and you feel that you know you already know the stairs A small eagle which comes in between saying that I know more than the spa person Why should I listen to him Let me just do my own work But there might be a small point which can add in a lot of value in your life It might actually make a difference So start listening Instead of curing start listening to understand more and more