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while being in a relationship If you realize that you are conducting more with somebody else should do you believe this person See the basic issues this one Andi I have thought about this and I think we should stop making relationships with people we should start making Relationship with expedience is you know the kind of experience that we desire or the kind of experience that we appreciate it So we should be trying to find the source is off such experiences on If there is any source of such experience for whatever time it helps you should be connected to that experience rather than the person who is delivering that experience So that is why its a foolish idea toe Commit yourself to a person rather than a purpose or or inexperience Okay so marriage often fails Because of this our manage is often a very painful relation Because of this because done you make a lances with people You are not marrying the purpose You know youre marrying people and people can change from one time Brother You know I can change No my spouse can change My Children can change No So you cannot trust people actually like They can always have what they will have to compromise or they will have to sacrifice And they talk about sacrifice all the time You know when they feel like you know theyre stuck in life when they have an unpleasant situation then they will bring it out Like they say Like Ive sacrificed school you on things like that that the all this comes All this comes because off our tendency to make relationships with people other than purpose on experiences So if you when you make a relationship with somebody make sure that youre not just making a relationship with the person youre making a relationship with a purpose or inexperience and do not come it so much that you will have to suffer some after one point of time you should not be suffering from the D No obligation to the obligation toe Tolerate a very different purpose or experience that you never wished in the bus please So this is what I think